{"id":48497,"date":"2020-06-13T19:59:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-13T17:59:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/josjos.se\/blog\/?p=48497"},"modified":"2020-06-13T19:59:17","modified_gmt":"2020-06-13T17:59:17","slug":"annu-ett-avsked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/2020\/06\/13\/annu-ett-avsked\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c4nnu ett avsked"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>F\u00f6r snart 2,5 \u00e5r sen var jag och <a href=\"https:\/\/josjos.se\/blog\/2018\/01\/26\/avsked\/\">tog ett avsked<\/a>. Nu var det dags f\u00f6r hans fru och jag \u00e4r oerh\u00f6rt glad att jag f\u00f6ljde magk\u00e4nslan och <a href=\"https:\/\/josjos.se\/blog\/2019\/07\/06\/lite-sadar\/\">h\u00e4lsade p\u00e5<\/a> f\u00f6rra sommaren. Det gick fort p\u00e5 slutet som det ofta g\u00f6r med skitcancer.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e4r jag fick beskedet funderade jag p\u00e5 hur tusan jag skulle g\u00f6ra i dessa coronatider. T\u00e5g? N\u00e4. Bil? Hmm. M\u00f6jligt. Kollade med Jenny hur de skulle st\u00e4lla sig till att f\u00e5 bes\u00f6k. Funkade. S\u00e5 jag best\u00e4mde mig. Avsked \u00e4r viktiga.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e5 i torsdag slutade jag lite tidigare p\u00e5 jobbet och packade in mig i bilen. Fr\u00e5n det att jag l\u00e4mnade huset tills dess att jag kom tillbaka strax f\u00f6re midnatt ig\u00e5r r\u00f6rde jag inte vid en enda person. Oerh\u00f6rt konstigt.<\/p>\n<p>Det \u00e4r fint att f\u00e5 sitta i kyrkan och ta avsked. Att l\u00e5ta tankarna vandra kring personen. Minnas. Reflektera. G\u00e5 fram och s\u00e4ga n\u00e5gra ord. S\u00e4ga hej d\u00e5.<\/p>\n<p>Ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r vanlig sammankomst i n\u00e5gon lokal i n\u00e4rheten blev det utomhusgrill vid Timmertj\u00e4rn. Otroligt bra och lagom. Kunna prata, men inte krama n\u00e5gon, eller ta i hand. Konstigt. Sm\u00e5 bubblor med m\u00e4nniskor typ.<\/p>\n<p>Jag och Jenny tog en sv\u00e4ng f\u00f6rbi mammas och pappas gravsten ox\u00e5 n\u00e4r jag ins\u00e5g att den ju finns d\u00e4r.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/josjos.se\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Camera-Uploads146.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-48498\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/josjos.se\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Camera-Uploads146-445x278.jpg?resize=445%2C278&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"445\" height=\"278\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>F\u00f6r snart 2,5 \u00e5r sen var jag och tog ett avsked. Nu var det dags f\u00f6r hans fru och jag \u00e4r oerh\u00f6rt glad att jag f\u00f6ljde magk\u00e4nslan och h\u00e4lsade p\u00e5 f\u00f6rra sommaren. Det gick fort p\u00e5 slutet som det ofta g\u00f6r med skitcancer. N\u00e4r jag fick beskedet funderade jag p\u00e5 hur tusan jag skulle g\u00f6ra [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[2503,3701,130],"class_list":["post-48497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-vardagen","tag-begravning","tag-corona","tag-ed"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48497","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48497"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48497\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josjos.se\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}